Have you ever crushed on someone that was with the wrong person, you know they're so right for you, but you refuse to be THAT person that is the cause for the break up?
Yup. Me too.
But what did you do? Cry? Stare at your crush from afar and curse fates for giving you such terrible timing? Did you make little voodoo dolls of their girlfriend and try for the worst to overtake them? Did you sit at home, eating ice cream and drinking wine moaning with your girlfriends about how all the really great guys were taken with girls they didn't need to be with?
Yup. Me too.
Then one day I woke up and asked myself, 'Why?' Why am I'm pining away for someone I cannot have? There are thousands, no, MILLIONS of someones I can have out there? Really, why are you wasting your time on that ONE that doesn't see you/isn't ready for you/can't have you/doesn't want you when there are THOUSANDS of them out there that DO? No, MILLIONS.
Yes: Millions. Start strapping on your stilettos and get your freak'em dress on!
Yeah, there are PLENTY of great guys out there with wasting their time on girls they shouldn't, just because they don't want to be alone or the one guy in their group of friends that doesn't have a girlfriend. Then that one REALLY great woman comes along that's perfect for him and what's SHE suppose to do, wait? Hell no: Millions. There is no 'One' in this world; there are 'Ones'. Someone may be your 'One' at this point in your life, but if the time is not right for either of you, move on; another 'One' will come along or if fate likes you, she'll bring that 'One' back around.
Why wait and hope on one man who doesn't want you where there are THOUSANDS out there that do? No. Millions.
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